Saying No To Bad Luck

We have a love affair with luck , sometimes we chased it , sometimes it comes to us , people often says im lucky , well if you are generally a nice frinendly pesron , you will get lucky . If you lash out and bark at people . then luck will run away from you .

Luck is earned with certain good qualities , so is bad luck . Its the people who uses luck as an accusation who will never have it . Luck is soemthing that is earned . I believe we craete our own luck , you donf just sit at home and be lazy and get lucky .

Luck is the key to freedom , to open doors of great opportunitis , but not magic Luck equal diversitifcation plus persistence , Diversitification means coming up with an idea . becoming a big thiknker , follow up on wha you wanted to do , thats how luck happens

Coming up with an idea means having the energy and creativity to do a brainstorm and follow through . Energy equals physical , mental , plus emotional and spiritual health so if you respond or when i respond to angry comment , the pesron who made it control me and when anger controls me i spend less time being creative .

And when im not creative then i cant generate idesa – so that will be bad luck . thats why only the good , the polite , the gentle , the idealist get good luck . I attracted good luck into my life by being generous , being help ful and you never know whom you will attract .

Try these and you will see the changes and get more love

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How To Negotiate To Win

To know how to negotiate without wanting to defeat anyone will bring you l;ots of money and influence , Negotaing and infleuncing is soo powerful you need to get it rught . I taught key and simple way to negotaite to people on my coaching class

I m still wandering why there is no class for negotiation and influnce at some high education level . , if two people shift their focus from defeating other to defeating the problems every ones benefits .

The best negotitaion are those in which both parties are satisfied because they have reached a win – win agreement . Aslo you can alwyas re0 negotiate , even moses in the bible has to go back and get a new commnadement .

Everyday and every interaction is a negotitation . Its amways about the new value you want to offer . Not the old ones . Read that again , its always about the value you want to offer not the old one .

If you are phisically , emeotionaly and spiritual , mentally healthy whcich allows you all time to negotiate with your gut . Most people are negotiating with thier ego which will not get you far .

Thses will help you to negotiate with your gut

Drink plenty of water

Upgrade your value

Get 30 mine exercsie

Sleep up to 8 hours

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Few ways to build confidence into your life

The best possible way to become more confident is to start learning how to thing big , most people think very small becausev there is less competiotion at the bottom .How big we think will determines the size of our achievement .

The bigger i think the more i expand my options , my realtioships and the bigger confidence arouse .

Most people are not used to thinking big , even if they did and they dont have enopugh support then thier thinking will shrink .

If you dont have people around you with the same way , thinking big might seems like a far reach . probabaly thats the reason many people spend time on useless task that doesnt buld them up .

For example , a person who thinks his job is important received a mental signal to do the jb better in tha way he build a massive confidence . The person you are today are direct result of your enviroment . so learn to well come new ideas and see how it can be done .

Speak up – Practise speaking up Be on the positive side , the more you speak up the more you add to your confidence -As i mentioned above the more you do things , take action the more confidence you become . .

Here is a core exercise you can practsie these week

skipping x 90 secs

30 sec resr

90 sec bear crawl

30 sec rest

90 secs step up

30 sec rest


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Taking Calculated Risk Makes You Stronger

I usually  ties my busness to my tennis career . and ia slo tie lots of things to entreprenurships . you see life is like a sport . When i take risk , i feels stronger , when i dont i reaming stagnant . Stagnation is the problem for me . Im writting this to let you know that taking calculated  risk will help you to embrace changes and face your fear

Every month i write out a challenging attempt for my self – for example – my marketing  plan 30 days get more sex , Tell people what i do challenge . It was a game changer and high risk but get more swipe in my bank account and expand me to more busness opportunities.

As an entreprenur i have to attempt  a challenge many people wont make . . Taking a chance is a great way to test yourself and push boundaries . Most people set limit because they are too afraid  of the work that comes with it . You can take one risk a month ,which makes a lot of difference .

Success wont find you , you have to pursue it . . monitor the risk you are taking and how you feel about those risk . . .  And most importantly – take the risk that bring you more discomfort .

Dircet message me to learn about how you can get really strong .

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You Dont Need To Win Them All

Human beings are very complex , you never  know when your actions or your words would be considered  deeply offensive . . Wether  your intention is to offend or flatter  it will be considered deeply offensive . Most people are offended easily and whatever  you say will always be interpreted as each person private   perception of themselves .

I have a friend who grows up with an absent father and a dominated mother . . She grew up with dominating mother  and obtain 3 masters degree . , however she has a hard time in applying her schooling to the real world . She show no interest in entering any profession in which she has studying . ,

Whenever i saw her she would complain about her tough her life was , how much she needed money , and how awful her living conditiioning  were . . I always encourage her by praising her abilty to obtain three masters degree while others were having difficulty having one .

I didnt realise  that deep inside her she harbours  feelings of inferiority towards me because of her own lack of courage and proffesional accomplishement , she did not know how to alter her current circumstances and had her grown bitter . For people like her , you cant do much because  no matter what  you say , they will always  find fault .

The best thing to do is to protect your self and energy  from these kind of people and press on with your life . You  dont need to win them all .



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Only have have people in your life who, on balance , make it better not worse

The  greatest support system in life are friends who knows everything about you and still like you . also friendships are not compulsory , you dont have to stay with them unless you want to , the rules is to have goos friends who support  you and makes you feel good . Avoid friends s that makes you feel worse . Most people generally feel bad about themselves  so they will makes you feel the same .  .

I know this is not easy , what about that friends  that alway sabotage your effort and put you down . but really makes you laugh . . What about the ones whos is negative about your dream . Realise  that most of your friends might not be living their dreams so they will one way or the others to sabotage yours . .

The point of having a friends  is to feel better than we would , According to a clinical  pscysollogy   is to make frinds with people that are good for you . This is not always easy but why have friends if they dont do this much for us .. of course you dont want to make their life worse too .

Its not about avoiding them completely , but you can stop confiding  in them or telling them your dream or goals . , Simple relegate them to a position of acquaitance . The only way you can evaluate your friends  is to have audit of them and see if they making your life richer .

And the good thing about friends is they are not compulsory .

Exercise of the week

30 mins cardio , conditioning 75 percent of your heart rate .


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Many Ways To Feel Strong

Recently ive been feeling  really strong and productive . Ive become more aware of my energy and feelings and who i want to give it to . Ive been looking into setting really strong boudaries and this has created  for me many ways ways to feel strong . Feeling strong has  nothing  to do with   lifting   heavy objects on the floor .

Strong  people are generally nice human being 0 they can draw from their own strength without sabotaging someone else .  Strength  has tow primary  aspects energy and determination . , you can intensify this by quikening your breath a little or by thightenining your shoulders lightly .

When face with a situation , recall a time when you feel really strong and draw from that experience . bring to mind the  sense of strength you experince during those times . I used to apply these tactics when im facing a very difficuult opponent during my tennis career and it works most of the time .

Feeling strong also comes in many forms including quiet perseverance . Get familiar with what strength feels like in your body so that you can so that you can call it up again .  Deliberalely stimulating the feelings of strength to deepen their neurons pathway.

Those ways will create a path way any  time you have a sense of not feeling strong .


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Push If Its Hurt , good

The words  easy is usually the way to trapped people . Its always a big trap and your mindset is to find something easy with half effort then you will fall into this trap . – if you look  around you , – you will see several easy steps towards success –  Seven easy days to thinner thigh , Seven easy stpes to financial freedom – Seven esay moves to lower your golf score .

The reason  we see them repeatedly is because , freedom ,thinner tiighs  , and lower golf scores still eludes us . . They eludes us because these easy steps do not work .They leads us to the next easy step and the next . They do untill you resaonably observe that hard work works better .

Ive had success in my career as a pro athlete , ive also lost my ways when i hang with people who loves the easy step . , The fundamental sign of mental health is one realise that life is hard . .

Ive been learning and building my besness for the past 6 years – before i used to work in a commercial gym before opening up my own private studio and its hurt at very steps of the way but i keep psihing hard ..

Half effort always produces half result – hard work is the only way to resolves the matter so if it hurts thats good . And its always okay to walk your own path .

If you ve been working all week – do this exercise to feel good

Set a goals and commit your goals to paper








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Dwelling In The Past Distract You From The Presents

Its not just sad or tragic events that leave  people focused on the past . Sometimes we dwell  on the past  as a way to distract ourselves . from the present . What happens in the past is a life lesson not a  life sentence .  One of the best way is to remove yourself from the enviroment of friends that kept reminding  you of the past . They are still stuck there and to have a break through you need distance .

Dwelling on the past causes fear and inabilty to take actions .  Its also interfere with your ability  to be your best self , – You cant enjoy  the present if your mind is always stuck in the past – The truth is we dont know what life would have  has in stock for us had we not made those choices .

By dwelling on the past , you will miss new opportunities and experiences and celebrating the joy of today if you are distracted by things that have already occur .

Here are few strategy to stop the past frm holding you back –

Shift your thinking

Schedule a time to think and reflect about the past  it could be 20 mins a day then move on

Give yourself something else to think about –

Establish goal for the future – Establish  both long term goals and short term goals .

Read a book a week on a biography  od a succseful person

Make peace with the past of get counselling .

Do 20 mins exercise daily – do conditioning 2 weekly to help you get clear  in the head .

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Harness Your Biology To Quiet Your Fear

Fear a from of stress i the most common research  and used against people in the last decades . No matter  how courageuos  you are , you will always feel the fear . Getting over fear is not something you just says to people . In my personal l experience , the more things you overcome , the less faer you feel . .

An energy psychiatrist  taught me the way to harness more of my courage  which has been ingrained  into me as an athlete . To win  you must have fear  and you must proceed with the game so i understand this emotion  that the more  obstacles you overcome , the more fear you will feel .

Fear works against   your bilology when it becomes a habitual response to lesser , everyday conflicts . Consistensely  feeling like a deer in the headllight can make you emotionally twitchy and physically spent .

When people says dont be afraid – its a wrong things  things to say – In any case i dont equate the  absence of fear with courage . Its the byproduct of lobotomised emotions . . Without something to overcome , there is no biological push .

Here are  ways to train your brain to send  chemicals to conteract  them .

Elliminate caffeine  sugar and other stimulants or reduce comsumption  -This fuel the fight or flight  response .

Avoid  people who Re- einforce  your fear .  – they are biological irritants . Stick  close to emotional nourisher

Stay away from violent news cast , traffic jams  arguments or other stress inducers .

Take a deep breath and do 20 mins exercise daily .

This week

30 mins conditioning 65 percent to 56 heart rate





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