Most people are lonely , i mean very lonely but had no idea how they get to that position . . One basic thing most psychotherapeutic agrees on is the healing power of meaningful connections . The sense that you seen, heard , and appreciated is fundamental to human health .
This is one of the reason women especially spent soo much time in looking good . Personally i think most of these people are suffering from loneliness and attention problem . Im not advocating looking shabby but looking great without compromising yourself .
Loneliness is over rated , humans are not supposed to be alone . We are supposed to love and to be loved . So psychological speaking , everybody needs a bit of tenderness and the first thing you want to address is loving yourself which is spiritually rewarding but it has to come from within .
If you dont love yourself , you will be lonely . Its about nurturing connections – if im with people and im not connecting with them , then im lonely .
ATTRACTING PEOPLE THAT DO YOU HEART GOOD
This come by building the links of many kind – not only husbands, and boyfriends . People that you are really connected with in a nourishing manner . Be aware that a lot of people are very damage and destructive so be selected .
The ability to let you speak your truth without judging you – Hang out with people who allow you to express yourself and speak your truth . Dont settle it will damage your spirit .
Have a sense of humor – I laughed a lot and for me its natural and if someone think i shouldnt then i move away . A lot of people are sad so have a sense of humor .
Behaviour that matches word s -Work hard that your behaviour match your word . dont try to impress but express .
Be open to spiritually and intuition – Work on being open minded , the more i practise this , the better i get . It might be very hard if you have some kind of belief system but it will enrich your life .
Being loving and kind – We are all ware of this , normal sunday school stuff but not so easy to do . Being loving must come from within, you must love yourself and be blissful . i mean loving without conflict , not economical . Then you can give love and you will never be lonely .