We all cant stand jerk ? right so lately i discovered that the best way is to coach them out of their obnoxious behaviour . Its not that easy thou , these people are very good in their folly and most of the time they get away from it .
Most people with weak personality are not strong enough and the only way to act is to be a jerk . I love personality that attracts , in order words i love powerful people .and if you are like me here are some solutions in dealing with a jerk .
You need to also figure out if you are being realistic in taking offence , if you caught the person out in public , you might create a social tension .
Ignore it – Most individual may simply want attentions , sometimes i forgot to apply this but its the fact .You have to be consistent in ignoring the behaviour or make a pact with the people around to refrain from delivering attention .
Control the offender – In a pragmatic approach , may be another gender or some one close to them should be the one to intervene . You dont really needs to do this by yourself .
Preserve the person self esteem – Personalities are complex as i mentioned earlier , most people just want attention , and most people run away from it . Research shows that prejudiced people are more likely to change if they can first be made to feel good about themselves . Ask self affirming questions of a person whose behaviour you are trying to correct .
Upgrading her self esteem may help her feel less threatened. Those are the strategies ive learned to adopt from adopt from the author of the search for fulfilment .
Thanks for reading .
Keep going strong and better .