Ive never planned or set up to want to live alone , it just happened . It wasnt scary and i ddint have any fear .I was busy . I have always lived with people , friends , family untill few years back when i moved to London . This is what happened to me ,
As i said in the begining i had never wanted to live alone . Im deeply sociable , extroverted sometime among people , but we all change right ? To clarify things , living alone is different from being alone . Most people live with people and there are still lonely . so there is a huge difference to be considered there.
Here are the few things ive learned .
Its not that bad . My creative business was born .
My conscious mind improved . i became a better thinker / writer / person
I had more energy for love , work and physical exercise .
I got fitter , I slowed down , woke up earlier and started to see the world more happily .
Since i started to live alone i had less and less problem with fake people that i used to know when i wasnt by myself .
I became more aware of what i really want from life . . The joy of living alone has also increase my joy of being with people .
I became sharper , happier , younger looking and vibrant .
Thou some people accused me of selfshness , but i believe the answer is more complicated – without the energy i derived from being by myself , i know i wouldnt be of much of use to anyone later on .
I realsed life is not about struggling but thriving . every thing is about energy and if you are like me with good energy , you will want to preserve yourself by going into solitude very often .
Try it for yourself , it could be 10 mins a day , then you build up from there .