Im always thinking relationships is the backbone of everything , not only sexual or romance , but in buisness and life .It entails willingness to keep agreement and handle obstacles by adressing , processing , and resolving conflicts . Sadly most people confuse attachment with love .
Most people are coming from position of basic needs so they get confused about their intention in a relationships .Lots of people are suffering simply because they are not able to maintain a great relationships. Im talikng about people that are too entitle and needy
Here are the ten things ive gathered by observing myself and other people .
In the conventional view , living together is considered a logical goal , but the reality is most people are not meant to be together nor living together and some people are excellent at it .
Are you aware that relationships is like a busness partner . . A person is candidate for a relationship when he is able and willing to give and receive love . To handle feelings , to make a commitment and to keep agreements .
He can forgive and let go of his ego long enough to work problems out amicably .
He follows a reconciliation , not retaliation models in his interactions .
Has no overpowering or religious obsessions .
Has no disability with respect to money – example cannot earn , spend , share , save , lend , contribute , receive .
Has no active addictions – drugs , alcohol , too much talking , no actions .
An action taker , someone who is doing something .
Is your friend not just your sex partner , loves your company and is compatible .
Shares interest with you – doesnt have to be everything .
Im not saying this out of fiction its about the truth that bounds us all up as a human being .
To your love .