Dealing with mistakes is actually a act of responibilty . Its not fun because most of us has not been taught how to handle mistakes properly .Daeling with mistakes can have a lot of impact on our esteem and emotion if people around us are not being supportive . Thats one of the reason in my observation why most avoid mistake at all cost .
No one ever set out willingly to make mistakes .Its crazy when we like to play safe and avoid making a mistake . Not make mistake or seeking to avoid one means you might have to trade in your true value vulnerable self for a short time – focused obsession with pleasing the wrong people .
Here are ways to look at mistakes or lets say how i usually handle mistakes. There is a lesson ive laernt in a valuable way , as a kid when my mother saw me making mistakes she will become angry and frustrated all because shes in experience and dont know how to handle the problems . Most time she is coming from her own insecurities .
We all do this with people will love thinking we are protecting them .Making mistakes is a way to learn . Ive seen people calling themself stupid once they make mistakes and this is a wrong approach .
Whenever you make mistakes , see it a way to be creative , to become self reliant and learn or as a way to grow in that area .As you learn a better attitude toward mistakes, you will feel less tense , your work will improve , you will try new things .
In this way you can begin to undo negative programming .