Most people are too cheap on themselves and this costs them a life time of happiness, and I can see how this affect overall happiness. I’m not always sure it’s about the money, it’s always poor up bringing about the money. If you cannot invest money in yourself, you cannot invest it in another person. Most people like to get but they don’t like to give, and/or when they give, they expect to get more than they give.
Since we are always influenced by feelings and not reasons, the creative faculty of the mind is set into actions entirely by emotions and not by cold reason according to Napoleon Hill. So, why would anyone want to waste their resources by not investing in themselves rather by being cheap. It has taken me a long time and several mistakes to understand this fact about the subject of happiness.
If you don’t invest in your body every other thing you have will go away. Your brain, your mind, and if you are not careful your spouse. It usually begins with an argument. Most men are too fat, too tight in the ass, inflexible, and that’s why most people are not sexually alive because they need to be turned-on.
Swinging the hips is a very good exercise that can turn your sexuality alive – and while you are doing this try to keep breathing with the movement.
This is also why many people die of stress at an early age; not literally dead and put in the ground – but lost touch with life. So, when you are happy, it can motivate you to work harder, longer, smarter and effective.