A stressful mothers is an unloving mother . Mothers need a support system to be loving and the western society has deprived lots of mothers fro being lovable , i mean its extremely hard to be lovely if you are not loving to yourself . Every body is brought up in a pattern ans so you long for happiness . Attachement is involve .
Some mothers are going to kill me when reading this blog . According to OSHO – – Just being a bilogical mother is not enough – as i said its not easy being a mother – to be a mother not just to reproduce , to be a mother means a great training , a great inner discipline ,one has to be lovable .
If the mother is lovable then the child will love without any attachment . . And whenever he will find someone lovable , he will love . . Most mothers and fathers are not lovable because they have never thought in that terms .
For love to happens , you have to create it , you have to become it , you have to grow , only then you can create love in others . It cannot be demanded because love is a quality .
I have a lot of respect and love for the mothers i know because they keep growing .