We all need space and to have a healthy psyce or ego in relationship – you must fully understand your spysce . You might be an introvert who is in a relatiionship with an extrovert . I realised most of my friends are extrovert – they like to have someone around and im opposite , i dont mind people around but at a certain time i want then gone but i love people .
The part of the work of being healthy is to know your authenthic phsycological type and then making choices .The trick is to find a balance way of asserting ourselves and being true to ourselves . For example an introverted person needs a lot of distance when it comes to affection , they need to give you the signal for closeness on their own without pressure and when it comes to extrovert , you simply need to show that you are on their side .
Its just a matter of understanding and to be an adult in any kind of relationship needs constant exploration of individual changes .My partner is extroverted most of the time which kind of cool because i dont really need someone to be around . Another important thing is to pay attention to your energy and focus –
Both parties has to be a source of nuturing for each other and share feeling with each other . In a relationships this opposing style can lead to conflict ive also learned that some people are so deeply and extremely introverted they are better not being off not being in a relationship . The key is it to find what you really are for the sake of your success in life and energy so that you dony compromise your lively energy .