No matter whats going on with you , you can always be of service to anther person . . I can say in my experience that most mentally strong people are givers . Giving is an habits , so is taking . . I know someone who was diagnosed and passed away with a brain tumour few years back . I observed that even during his treatment , he kept working , giving , despite the pain of the chemo and the illness .
Although most people diagnosed with a terminal ilness may ask , Why me – that wasnt his mentality . So the point t is no matter what your situation , you can be of service to others Most people are used to taking as a child , they are not team players – some of these are cause by bad parenting and negligence but you can develop power and attribute of giving by yourself .
If you are suffering its because you focused on external – go and create value for other people you will see the differmnece in your days . Either you trying to get a promotion or enhance your career , making this shift will land you in a better place .
FOCUS ON YOUR EFFORT NOT YOUR IMPORTANCE
If you want to gain more important , then improve your effort . instead of paying attention to how overqualified you may think you are , focus on your effort , there is always a room for improvement .
ACCEPT CRITICISM GRACEFULLY – If someone offers you a feed back – someone you trust , dont be quick to dismiss it . Be willing to evaluate critcism and consider whether you want to change your behaviour .
STOP AND THINK ABOUT HOW OTHER PEOPLE FEEL – This idea will always help you to increase empathy for others , This actually a very powerful one because we are all lost in our own misery that it takes serious empathy and awareness to consider other peoples feelings .
And finally – dont keep score – dont keep score of your good deed .
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