One of the highest income skill is selling , then the abilty to win with people . we need to learn how to win with people in our lives both professionally and personal . Everything is learnable skill . I want to win with people daily in a good healthy way , to meaningful conversation with people without getting defensive . I started to practise and learn how to be a good leader . This takes me to me to dealing with hurting people .
Weve all been hirt at a particular time in our life . and if you wish to travel far and fast . Take off all your envies , jealous , lack of trust , unforgiveness , selfishness and tears . People who have not gotten past their hurt has a hard time doing that . They even have a hard time being happy . As a result , they act and react differently from healthy people .
Healthy people are more willing to change – — more willing to admitt failure , more willing to discuss issue , more willing to learn from others , and more willing to do something about their problems .
UNHEALTHY PEOPLE – Are in other way not willing to discuss issue , not willing to resolve their problems – Less willing to change Less willing to admit failure Less willing to do something about their problem and they carrying around a lot of baggage .
If you find yourself dealing with a hurting person – do not add to their hurt
Look beyond the person for the problem – Try to see whats causing the pain
Dont take it personally – Hurting person are going to find offence when none is given – when you know that youve done nothing wrong – have a compassion for thier pain and apologize – this can be very difficult even for a person with a healthy self image.
The more we practise this , the better we win with people .
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