Most people only intention of giving is to get , this kind of people tend to suffer through life . Thou they are are different type of giver and takers , some people fell into category of a taker . I can sense them anytime , they are soo good in taking that they cannot even smell themselves .
You should be aware that there is no effort which we extend tho those eho are distress can go without some form of adequate reward . Not always does the reward come from those to whom the service is rendered , but it will come from one source or another . This is the highest form of value and many people tend to miss that .
Ive written many article about this – A giver always have power – people stay on the side of a giver not a taker . – I understand that giving might be a problem if you are thinking of what to get in return but just have the altitude of gviing without knowing will create opportunities for you in life .
A little personal story when i was looking for a place to start my busness – The pesron that connected me with the landlord was someone one ive renderd a help to many times without asking for anything in return and when i told him about my problem he quickly put a good words for me and the landlord agreed . . Thats the power and value in giving without ven thinking of getting .
The sole motive which inspire me to keep on wrtting these are the desire to be helpful to others , You dont need to do it in form of materails gain , it could be emotional , it could be spiritual , As long you have your other self you will be successful , double your income and more happiness in your life .
Do these for few days and you will see massive changes in your life and happiness