Sometimes you cannot avoid labelling because most people label themselves anyway . As im writting these i remember attending a seminar when a wise women told me that there are three kind of people to look for – those who know they are out to get you and say so , those who are nice people but due to their ineptitude cannot help themselves from victimizing you – who cares . And those who act like nice people but under thir kind existence are ruthless and cunning .
Ive has opporttunity to deal with these kind of people in my life and its a great lesson to pass on to other people and our future generations . Most people through their association with you have set immaginary and unrealistic expectations and when you fall short they label you , no matter how noble your motives may have been ., you will not escape being labeled as cunning and rutheless person who has made them the victim .
In the past it used to bother me a great deal , whenever i was labelled unfavourably , now if i were to be labelled as cununing and ruthleess , so be it .
Human being create their own reality according to individual perceptions . . The reality never change but the perception will be altered . One of the best way to deal with ruthless people is if you suspect that they have no moral boundaries in accuiring thier desire – dont get involve . . When you master detachment fro your own greed and desire you will save yourself lots of heartache and loss .